{"id":1183,"date":"2009-04-13T14:30:25","date_gmt":"2009-04-13T13:30:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beverlyrevelry.com\/?p=1183"},"modified":"2009-06-01T13:29:46","modified_gmt":"2009-06-01T12:29:46","slug":"more-post-inspiration-from-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beverlyrevelry.com\/?p=1183","title":{"rendered":"<b>More post inspiration from a friend<\/b>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>These are five things that Jessica associates with me.\u00a0 It&#8217;s always interesting, I think, to learn what tidbits stand out in other people&#8217;s minds about when they think about me.<br \/>\n<strong>1. Big family<\/strong><br \/>\nThis is something that many people associate with me, but to be honest, my family doesn&#8217;t really feel all that big to me.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve heard it said in a few different places that big families are in vogue again, and that certainly seems to be the case in the small town where I live.\u00a0 Off the top of my head I can think of three families I know with six kids, one with five, and at least a half-dozen with four, so we&#8217;re definitely on the smaller side of big!<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of that, I think those six-kid families have really awakened Olof&#8217;s competitive spirit, and he&#8217;s been talking a lot lately about &#8220;the next one.&#8221;\u00a0 Me, I&#8217;m more ambivalent &#8230; we&#8217;ll see.\u00a0 In my younger years I never felt a burning passion to have kids;\u00a0 I did want them more than not, but I felt&#8211;and still feel&#8211;that if they didn&#8217;t come along for one reason or another, I&#8217;d be okay with that.\u00a0 I would have focused on getting more education and establishing a career in historical research and writing.\u00a0 And gotten a lot of dogs, of course.\u00a0 Once I started having kids, though, there was a part of me that thought I might as well go whole hog and make a career of that instead!\u00a0 So, while I&#8217;d be perfectly satisfied to stop at four, I haven&#8217;t entirely ruled out the possibility of having more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Grangeville<\/strong><br \/>\nAh, Grangeville &#8230; my hometown, a timber and farming hub nestled on a high-mountain prairie in north-central Idaho.\u00a0 Its population is only around 3500, but it&#8217;s the largest town for 70 miles around and the county seat of the largest county in Idaho (and one of the largest counties in the entire United States, I&#8217;ve been told).<\/p>\n<p>My mom grew up in Grangeville, and though I was born and lived my first several years in Montana, my mom moved us back to her old stomping grounds after she and my dad got divorced when I was almost six.\u00a0 Actually, from the time I was six until I was eleven, we lived in Cottonwood, an even smaller town about 15 miles away.\u00a0 The summer before sixth grade we moved to Grangeville, and I spent the rest of my school years there.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years I&#8217;ve had a love-hate relationship with Grangeville, but it is still and forever &#8220;home&#8221; in my heart.\u00a0 If I were ever to move back to the States, Grangeville is the only place that I&#8217;d want to be, not for the town or the people (most of whom I don&#8217;t even know anymore), but for the land.\u00a0 I yearn, truly, for the mountains and the rivers and the prairie.\u00a0 For the four distinct seasons, each more glorious than the last.\u00a0 For the amber waves of grain, literally.\u00a0 Where I live now is nice enough, but it really doesn&#8217;t compare.<\/p>\n<p>Jessica associates this with me is not only because we&#8217;re both from small Idaho towns, but also because she has family who used to live in Grangeville.\u00a0 In fact, her cousin, Melanie, and I were fast friends for a couple of years before Melanie&#8217;s family moved on to the colder pastures of Alaska.\u00a0 Melanie and I were recently &#8220;reunited&#8221; on Facebook, having seen each other on Jessica&#8217;s profile, and I&#8217;ve noticed now that Melanie has found more old Grangeville friends through me, something that probably wouldn&#8217;t have happened if I hadn&#8217;t moved to Sweden and met Jessica!<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Northern Sweden<\/strong><br \/>\nNorthern Sweden is not unlike north-central Idaho, which is probably why I&#8217;m much more comfortable and happier here than I was in Stockholm, where we lived when I first moved to Sweden.\u00a0 The town I live in now is approximately the same size as Grangeville (though we do have a bona fide &#8220;big town&#8221; ten minutes&#8217; drive away!), and raising my kids here reminds me a lot of my own growing-up days.<\/p>\n<p>I could do without the long, long winters and all of the snow, but having grown up in the mountains, I&#8217;m no stranger to that stuff.\u00a0 In fact, the climate here isn&#8217;t terribly different from the climate where I grew up;\u00a0 it&#8217;s colder for longer and there&#8217;s more snow, but the differences aren&#8217;t as extreme as you might think.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Writing Inspiration<\/strong><br \/>\nI&#8217;m not totally sure what this refers to.\u00a0 I mean, the &#8220;writing&#8221; part is clear enough, but the &#8220;inspiration&#8221; I&#8217;m less sure about.\u00a0 I love to write, and on my more fanciful days even consider myself an actual &#8220;writer,&#8221; but I am sorely lacking in inspiration these days.\u00a0 You know, that&#8217;s not really true &#8212; I have plenty of inspiration, but not much in the way of motivation to actually sit down and get anything written.<\/p>\n<p>When I do write, what inspires me most is probably my kids.\u00a0 There&#8217;s just so much fantastic raw material there, and trite as it sounds, it&#8217;s fascinating and magical to see the world through their eyes.\u00a0 It&#8217;s difficult for me to capture that magic in words sometimes, which is why so much of the amazing stuff goes unrecorded.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Sofas<\/strong><br \/>\nHa!\u00a0 This is all my husband&#8217;s doing &#8230; he&#8217;s got an unbridled love of sofas, which is one of the first things that new visitors to our house will notice.\u00a0 These days we&#8217;ve scaled back a little, and now have a mere four sofas:\u00a0 one in each of our two living rooms, one in Olof&#8217;s office, and one in the guest room.\u00a0 There are a further two in the garage, however, so if we should find ourselves feeling the lack, the situation could be quickly remedied!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These are five things that Jessica associates with me.\u00a0 It&#8217;s always interesting, I think, to learn what tidbits stand out in other people&#8217;s minds about when they think about me. 1. 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